FREE PR FOR LAZY MEN

Are there gold diggers? Yes, established fact.

Are there leeches posing as women? Absolutely.

But please let us not act like we don't know there are lazy men. Lazy men who hide under the cover of the fact that women like money.

Some men don't mind women feeding them, disguising it under the fact that women are also interested in making something of themselves and making their own money.

I'm here to blow the trumpet of lazy men and run free PR for them, the same way that ‘gold diggers’ have PR.

I like that we all acknowledge that women like money and prefer to be taken care of, because, to be honest, it's somewhat in their nature, even though we can now all agree that women tend to overdo it. Yes.

But some men are hiding under the fact that women like money, that it has become an excuse for them to be lazy, stingy, and lack the sense to be providers.

There are homes where women are the breadwinners, covering for their husbands who have refused to work and provide something decent to take care of the family. And women who tend to fall for this are self-sufficient women, women who are capable of putting food on the table and do not want to ask for help. They attract men who do not know or are shying away from their responsibilities and become burdens on them.

Some women also kill themselves for their families. Lazy men exist, men who are also leeches. Those who have refused to work because they cannot kill themselves to provide for their own family they are building, and they won't help in the house and make themselves useful because they claim to be the head of the homes.

No man deserves to pressure himself to make all the money to take care of the home, the same way no woman should pressure herself to take care of the home all by herself. That’s why you are both a team and should pick your strength and do it well. And assist the other when they are lacking.

If your potential partner is not consistently telling and showing you how he intends to provide for the family, please run because they will become a burden on you. You'll think you gave birth to more than the actual number of children that you have.

Lazy men exist o.

Vet your partners and don't be a ‘pick me’ saying you don't want to look like you're here for the money. You’ll just suffer.

A man who is responsible should know that money is important if he wants to start a family, and should also have a plan on how to run a home. Nobody is saying you should put yourself under extreme pressure and kill yourself trying to provide for your family; just do the best you can do.

A home is not built on vibes and inshallah. Before school fees come diapers, formulas, and medical bills, as a woman, don't be too self-sufficient and selfless to marry a lazy man.

But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 1 Timothy 5:8

Happy Father’s Day to all present and responsible fathers out there. We see your sacrifice and all the burden that you carry, and we hope God makes them as light as a feather. And I hope you live a long and healthy life to be able to enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Thank you, and I look forward to seeing you next time.